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9월 9일 law of thresholdit's a lesson about environment and economics today.
"when more and more load is added to the object, the object will take up all the loads and behave in a normal manners. just when it reaches the threshold value, it may break without any warning.
Apply to the same situation placing a ball between the valley. the ball will stay in the valley when u push it either left or right. but if u push it too hard for once, it will pass over the limit and will never come back again.
it's an irreversible action btw.."
i think this is not just a lesson of environment and economics..
more of thinking deeply about where we stand and what are we looking for..
alot of people said that it's too stressful all e way either in their studies or works.
some of them will just choose to release by having someone to complain with, some of them just try to find leisure time to release stress..
there're tonnes of solution..
but not the way to hid all the feeling and unsatisfaction.. and let it accumulate...
in the end it will just burst out like the story of the threshold law..
I just like the way Danes deal with problems..
maybe the way they like beers, i mean they love beers, can solve most of the problem..
lol.. i mean it..
maybe they may look not that serious and having party all e time, but there's some philosophy behind all this..
having gathering at least 5times in a week, having beers and sharing great time with frens..
that's the way they stay as the happiest people in the world.. (source from www. they really the happiest in the world. =D)
having not much things to worry about.. even there is, friends and support are always just few meters away from you..
that's what happiness mean for..
dun think too much.. have a beer.. =)
SCHOLES!!!
 6월 18일 Camp OutReach'09 Bintan Islandwords of appreciation from siyun, after Camp OutReach 09.. "this is a deaf camp, so please read it in silence" Group C is the BEST in my (and all C CUPians’) eyes! We have indeed achieved our motto for the camp: Whe Determination Conquers, Where Friendships Emerge. Determination was conquered when Barbara, Ariel and Ying Xu who are non-swimmers braved the choppy waters and went for snorkelling, when Weiling and Ginny reached the summit despite feeling so tired and wanted to give up initially, when Jennifer and Jolene joined us for the many games despite being physically fatigue, and when Moses, Ariel, Wei Ling, Wei Hong, Madeline, CMY and Gary gave a try at coconut tree climbing. In a way or another, I am sure each of us has conquered certain fears we have within ourselves during this COR journey. For me, I overcome my fear of signing in front of a crowd by performing on the appreciation night! (: Friendships were formed between buddies, within our group, and even with the kids at the orphanage (: It was heartening to see everyone being so enthusiastic during the camp and so ON about our C Cup Cheer (: I feel that our group has bonded very well together and I really couldn’t ask for more. How I wish our camp was much much longer! Thank you to all Facilitators Wan Xin, Barbara, Ying Xu, Madeline, Yong Lim and Wei Hong for all your support from the day we met at SADeaf till the end of COR 09. Thank you for helping me with my signing, for encouraging me on when I’m tired, and for being part of this team. Each of you is indispensable to Group C (: Thank you to all participants Jennifer, Wei Ling, Ginny, Jolene, Ariel and Moses for being part of this team (: I feel really proud of you all, watching each of you conquering trees, mountains, waters and most importantly, conquering yourselves. No words can describe how touched I felt when I see how you all overcome your own fears and grow so much during this journey together. You have indeed done yourself proud! I really hope to see you again next year at COR 2010! Thank you CMY for being the big Mama of Group C! Your LOVE for COR can really be felt throughout this entire year (: I am glad to say I finally understood this passion you have for COR. All the best for your FINAL YEAR dear! Last by not least, Thank you dear AGL Gary for your support, and for always being there whenever I need your help. Your steadiness is very comforting. Thank you for walking through this journey with me (: Really hope I will see you at COR 2010 (: All in all, I feel very privileged to have known each of you through COR 2009. Everyone is truly amazing and I have learnt so many invaluable lessons through our interaction. Thank you again for the wonderfully beautiful memories at COR Bintan (: Am really looking forward to seeing you guys this coming Sunday (21st June) for our C CUPians outing! I will sms you all the details again once they are finalised! Till then babes and hunks (: Keep in contact! With Love, 6월 12일 ET Sichuanok.. since few frens feel like knowing what i have done for the Sichuan trip, i just write in brief to record down la..
this could be part of my memories right.. try to note down before i forget =X
for more photos, do visit the fb =PPP yup.. for the 8-days trip in Sichuan, we have visited some of the earthquake relics, interaction with the SICHUAN University students and also doing some CIP stuff..
sort of CIP (Community involvement Programme) but not exactly CIP.. just go and help out in the primary school in some rural area..
in which require 2hrs along a bumpy roads.. but all the complaints were just gone when we saw those hyper active kids running around..
and the LIEN is planning to build a new toilet for them in which i will raise both hands and legs to agree..
the toilet needs more attention as the condition now is not satisfied..
cant imagine better when u just have to clean ur bowels without any cubicle and toilet bowl but a drain without a flushing system..
but yet, 1 thing i like most is that they had sort of "gotong royong" everyday to clean the toilet up..
one thing so special about them is their willingness to obey..
they will burst out from classroom once the cutey bell rang, but will soon back into their room when it's time for class..
it's like some kind of monster will go after them if they dun..
and also, we have spent around 15,000 RMP to buy new books for them.. (frankly. this is my 1st time ever to c the receipt printed so long.. =X
it's really touching when we handover the books to the kids during a press conference (in which we were informed that we were on the TV) haha.. too bad i did not make up and really style my hair =PP
but 1 thing i can get from them is..
happiness is just that simple..
they don't own much, but yet the smile on everyone is so sincere..
and oso.. we got the chance to interact with the kids for 2 days where we had the chance to be a teacher..
ahaha.. obviously i think i am more suited to be a magician than a teacher =D
for the wall plastering session, i believe all of us did share the joy with all the kids..
i am not good in narrating the past event, but i really enjoy myself being part of the trip..
thanks for the SAO, Dr Su Guaning, and all the prof who accompany us along the way..
as mentioned "this small interaction maybe doesnot mean much to us, but could be a big influence for the kids to fight for their future after the earthquake" 10월 16일 effort put in PhotograpHIyup.. now it shows 5.38am in the morning..
still fighting with the printer in adm while the rest of ppl should have a nice dream by now.. PhotograpHI lessons finally came to an end.. and ya.. the grand finale will be the exhibition at heeren.. okie.. a free advertisement here.. title: faster than the speed of sound venue: heeren shopping mall, orchard road date: 22 Oct till 2 Nov the main aim of the whole photographi programme is to provide enrichment courses to the HI community.. meanwhile, having the exhibition can raise the public awareness and let the public know more about the inner world of the HI community.. it's a great piece of works belonged to the whole team of volunteers i would say.. although we have lotsa tough time when trying to get the things done.. reali, the whole programme seeks lots help from people all around the NTU.. ya.. specially thx to JOEL, one of the most pro photographer coming down n share with ur experience.. another big thx to chong ping.. coming down for so many times.. even ur attendance rate is higher than some of the participants.. n yup.. still have to thx peiling's boss for solving us lots problems.. venue, sponsorship, fakewalls, printing.. sounds nothing but indeed it required lotsa hardwork.. the feedback from the participants is good.. most of them state they enjoyed themselves throughout the programme!! n of coz.. big thankyou to the whole team of volunteer. without u all, photograpHI is nothing.. through outdoor shooting sessions, can c how caring our volunteers are.. n for the indoor sharing, of coz.. can c u all put in lots effort.. thx zy n sy for being the log head.. haha bring all e stuff along.. thx qipei n hweemin prepare so hard for ur alternative film.. n it's fun!! thx aya the FC oso.. still have u to cheng the whole changmian (sometimes la..) thx ryan for being so dedicated giving advices and feedback for participants.. thx christine for taking good care of the beneficiaries, n yup.. the cards that u made recently.. super nice ler.. thx steven oso..one of the most passionate volunteer.. and set up the blog thingy! n huiying.. thx for being the communication bridge btw us n participants. n ya.. thx xuefen, shuihui, elaine, yuman for being so supportive.. really thx lot.. n of coz my partner, ellie! without u, i think i muz have been in super pekcek mode n jump the building le.. haha.. ya.. one of the most interesting session, pinhole camera.. w here all of them are allowed to use self made camera to capture n develop themselves.. so fun =) n yup.. our most important soul person.. PEILING.. haha.. ya.. i know throughout the whole programme, lots problem has come to u.. but u reali helped us alot.. xie xie ni.. really lots more to say.. but i still have lots more to print.. haha.. the volunteers have been working so hard to make the tasks done by time.. reali thx u all lots.. mounting is the last few steps.. we are omoz there..!!! b ut we still have our very last shot to go.. the exhibition.. just jiayouzz all.. FARRAGO.. GOGOGO.. that's Far we Go.. 9월 30일 一点点感想a bit general matter.. haha.. anything i think of then i just write it down..
有种感觉就是，就当 amcisa 是一个很好的庇护所。
过后，就开始发现其实，就真的有越来越疏远的感觉。
不过也可能是太少参加大家一起办的活动，(like chinese society events.. special project, amcisa thingy..)
不过，有一点点这种感觉，不认同也没关系，只是我的小小意见。。
有时候让我觉得让会让谣言，坏话，negative impression, 还有一些负面伤人的言语传播。
可能在这里有点语气过重，不过我现在真的有怕到。。
like approach some amcisa member who is not very closed..
就不知道他或她，在其他人是否听到了什么，对我的印象会很差..
也就好像出去外面会被人抛鸡蛋的感觉.. haha..
不过，可能是小部分人对我有不满，才会这样吧
不过，现任的会长和副会长，我撑你们..
amcisa的活动，我会支持的！！
中秋晚会来来来！！
最近和我的中国coursemate 聊到了最近的生活..
哈，还真的蛮多事情发生的..
但他就谈到，人生中就存在一种叫做“人品”的东西。
（虽然到最后我还是不懂什么是他所谓的人品）
就类似运气的东西吧，我猜。
反正就是一旦用完了人品，感觉上事事都不那么顺利。。
哈哈，好，就谈谈我觉得最近我一直都在想的东西。。
第一，当然就是foa comm 的事情啦。
简单来说，就是没有被录取。
哈，一开始其实也忘了有recruitment, but in the end meet with the rest at old can A.
n realise that the recruitment is now going on..
so just sit down n think of recruitment..
(feel like typing english is much faster ler.. haha..
kla.. to let u guys have the feeling reading chinese blog.. type back chinese =P)
对啦，多少会有点失望..
但是想到，哈，应该有很多条件比我更好的去办整个营。。
所以，也没说什么不满意或向上街示威的冲动。。 哈哈
maincomm 们，要加油咯！
第二，就是instep 事宜。
被人骂犯贱。。 哈哈。。
我也不想的。第一圈拿到sweden，due to the subject matching problem so i give it up..
n put myself in waitlist.. n 2nd round.. it's the instep who in the end reject me when i apply for denmark..
哈哈真的是犯贱..
算了，就像 Prof Lim siow yong said, instep just like a dessert after ur main course,
if cant get it, u still can eat till u feel full. haha.. apply next sem lo..
好咯就next sem reapply lo.
不知道我的GPA撑得下去吗..
好了，就此搁笔，加油！bye!
9월 28일 thankyou dinner and VOCtads the photos from WSC thankyou dinner
and also photos from the VOC (volunteer orientation camp)
1st of all.. thx yixian 1st.. lolx.. i have not return ur shirt!!
oops.. return u next time when i meet u..
here are some early birds.. so early reach but there is no food to eat.. haha..
who say early birds got more worms to eat??
tads our 帅哥 ssy.. haha.. even polo shirt oso can win the long sleeves la..
btw, y wear red??!! theme is black n white wad.. haha..
haha.. n our AYA.. the fc.. perhaps the most important people.. 非你莫属..
my partner ellie!!! and also zhiyuen..
lolx i think we love to take off specs before taking photos.
n our blur christine.. haha.. look so paiseh..
and also.. steven!!! 联络人 辛苦你了..
n oso.. huiying at the left..
and our ex-ch at right.. shuhui!!
thx for 骗我上贼船.. lolx
n the COR chair.. ryan.. stil part of farrago right..
e grand seniors.. tsk tsk..
meiying..
RSPHI big group photo!!
综合四代的代表.. 四代同堂..
after long day of senior camp..
our pre dinner photos.. lolx look so serious..
super playful 1 la..
there come the juniors in black shirt..
green is our lucky colour!!
few juniors who wish to get back earlier..
HA.. caught by me in red hand..
still lotsa photos.. but think for those who read my blog oso feel sien looking the same people post.. haola haola.. post till here 1st.. last but not least.. RSPHI rox... Farrago ZAIIIIIII... 9월 19일 生活: 杂since i move into the new hall area.. lotsa things have changed in my routine lifestyle..
haha.. 1 thing is good that at least i feel comfortable living here..
but everything just keep rolling n rolling become a big snow ball
(which including my tutorials and lect notes, alots more problem unsolved..)
so mayb just say shuang about this blog entry to 呻吟 yixia.. (lolx.. m i using the correct words?)
compared to the previous year, the time for me to play basketball,jog or even time for blowing water is getting lesser n lesser..
so as the time to make a simple frens gathering.. just like everyone has unlimited workload to be done..
actuali feeling a bit fed up for this.. reali starting to look forward for a more relaxing way to live..
ya. sem break is here.. haha. tads should be the only thing which we all shud be celebrating ba..
n indeed feel abit tired about the current lifestyle..
wan to drop down all the burden n plan for an escape..
can i?
8월 14일 加油好啦，打了那么多次的英文部落格... 总该打点中文的。
但我觉得应该会打一个小时。。哈哈
今天来谈一点比较悲的东西吧。。
就有人问到，你的好朋友是谁？
哈哈，我愣了一下，然后脑海也出现不了谁的样子。。
是大学就不一样吗？
就算认识的也只是活动与课业上的伙伴而已？
听起来真的有点可悲。。
对了，也许有些人跟我有同感吧？
但就是有时候，忙过头了，停下来想找个人来谈谈。
也不知道该找谁。。
也许就是忙后空虚群侯症吧。。哈哈
不过就可能大家忙得时间也都不一样，所以就很难说在最需要时马上可以出现。。
至于那些人在我难过是给安慰的朋友，真的很谢谢你们。。
毕竟至少不会让我觉得整条路就我一个人在走。。
还有对那些没有很看好或也许对我印象不好的人，
谢谢你们对我的不认同，我会努力改进的。。
我想大家对我的过于自我或者自以为是有意见吧？
我会加油的！！
还有接下来的，大家就为来着的活动，学业加油吧！！
一起加油！！=)
附：真的打了一个小时。。哈哈
8월 3일 updated for those who want to know wat i hav done for past 3 monthsfor a long time hav not updated any blog..
n thx ya for those who pay concern for me..
yup.. just like other GLs..
we hav prepared for months to wait e juniors to come..
n yup.. in a blink of eyes.. e whole camp has just over..
miss e moment when all e GLs staying together, doing stitch works..
practise for GL performance, drawing banners preparing nametag..
all these are the memories treasured in my mind..
n of coz hav to thx my conderate partner jiahui for facing e problem in OG..
erm.. sometime even facing alone when i once away for 半岛巡回..
appreciate for what u hav done..
n of coz for my dear 战友..
ardy guojing shijing weishi yingsuat and enxin..
thx u all for putting so many effort in FOA..
even sometimes i use some harsh words during debrief sessions, just hope tad u all wont mind..
all of us just wan e juniors to be in a better way when they come over..
n now.. i c u all hav done it..
well done ya..
n beside all these, before the FOA starts, i took part in a songsign performance @ J8 (junction 8)
as in RSPHI was invited by RSPID (intellectual disabled) to hav a performance in their event..
quite fun though.. even we just practises the song n formation in less than 8 practises..
but i feel the enthu of everyone n in the end we did a great performance..
never regret to join u all.. looking forward for the next time =P
anyway, when can i get e video har? >.< haha..
thx ya.. for Keep Holding On for so long.. haha..
yup.. tads the title of song, by Avril..
and after FOA n songsign..
there come the welcome Tea, ECA fair.. WSC fair..
haha.. all rush in the same time..
OMG.. tads y i cant take my juniors to go gaigai..
sorry ya.. but i promise i try to get me involved when u all prepare for the talent nite..
blemon, u all can make it de..
n the following event after this month is just.. haha.. i think can queue from here till larkim in jb..
BS class, PhotograpHI, DCCL, FOC, appreciation dinner =), RSPHI camp, HIde n seek exhibition, xmas songsign, HI singapore..
woah.. quite fun right to look at the schedule..
haha.. try to make it through.. n of coz hav to cope well with my studies..
jiayou jiayou..
tmr start school day.. everyone cheer up.. add oil lo.. =)
7월 9일 心情记事本today shud b a break for me ba..
haha. 1st of all, wish to say sorry to erm.. xinyi, ellie, enchen, xinhang, gladys n athene..
not purposely wanna put u all aeroplane.. juz haa..i oso wish to go n sing k today..
n yup.. after being a bit busy for the past few weeks..
n sometimes when i stop while everything stil keep going in a super fast mode..
perhaps i m juz getting tired.. n start to think ei.. wat's the point of draining my energy off everyday..
haha.. i think this is the sign of being overload..
ya.. everyday once open my eyes.. lotsa thing is awaiting to be completed..
but quite happy as today can sleep till more than 11am..
oops.. sounds like juz another piggie in the hall..
apart from them.. i m no other than a normal people..
n yup.. i oso feel like needing someone to get into wat i think deeply in my heart..
juz, perhaps for those who mix around or even work together with me will juz think tad..
weihong, shud b no problem in handling any stress or even forms of pressures ba..
but sometimes juz feel emptiness..
juz dunno how to express the feeling..
but indeed.. sometimes juz wish to get some ways to relieve all the internal pressure forming inside..
i m not as tough as other ppl think..
but haha.. have been living for omoz 20 years..
so far stil ok..
ok la.. i will keep fighting and holding on.
for everyone who reads this post, wish u all can jiayou for wateva things u r working right now..
haha.. ya.. thinking writing such things here, dunno suitable anot..
perhaps i shud make it a private blog jiuhao..
7월 4일 To AMCISA FOA GL 0809paiseh ya.. as in i 4get the password to access the gl blog..
so i juz leave some messages for u all..
yup.. GL preparation has been in progress for more than 1 month..
and everyone is working quite hard towards the same goal..
and yup.. i know tad perhaps some of u might hav some unbalance or perhaps insatisfactory towards my contribution..
yaya.. i can feel tad.. even if i were in your shoes, i will oso bu shuang..
but juz hope u all juz dun take it too hard..
n ya.. start feeling cant mixing around.. haha.. for the guys.. i think shud be no problem..
for seems like for the gals.. haha.. dunno wat shud i say..
and ya.. thx for all ur support ya.. like mingwei, mingli, yixian n others..
yaya.. i know tad for the past week, i hav been away for a week for the independent school talks..
and caused my partner to work for 2 persons portion.. xin ku ni le..
and after returning from the talk, seems like busy for other things..
okok.. then let me talk some of this so call other things here..
but if u feel bored then juz scroll down or even click the cross button on right top of the page..
recently i hav been busy with my RSPHI Farrago thingy..
as the new academic year, we will hav a new programme.. and so, hav to put in some effort..
and some more all the preparation work for the recruitment fair, welcome tea, WSC booth n etc..
other than tad, RSPHI oso cooperate with RSPID (intellectual disabled) to organise an event on 20 of july..
this event mainly is to raise the public awareness of the ID and the HI (hearing impaired)
personally, i think this kind of activities are quite meaningful..
tads y i did not hesitate or even regret for joining all these..
yup.. on 20 of july, i will be busy latest until evening..
so for those who pay concern to me, thx ya.. i will rest afterwards and start fighting for the FOA on the next day..
for those who pay more concern to my GL post and the preparation work, okie.. i will finish all my works before i go n get other things done..
tads the main idea y i hav been a bit busy recently..
n ya.. shun bian say.. for the harmonica practise.. i hav tried my best to attend every practises oso..
paiseh ya,, for letting yi quan down as in i did not turn up sometimes..
but for the vivace.. i oso will add oil..
okie.. tads all i would like to say..
so everyone juz keep it high.. n waiting for the FOA to come.. =) 6월 20일 midnite..the clock shows 2.36am now..
the mood now is erm.. in a struggle mode ba..
haha.. dunno y, juz dun feel like sleeping..
n yet, dun wan to socialise with anyone.
(should be ba.. haha.. who else are willing to socialise during midnite? haha..)
anyway, should i say, time flies?
juz in a blink of eyes, preparation of the GL's work is going on for omoz 1 month..
for this period of time, spending moz time with the other GL..
seeing them more than my parents..
(lols, i oso long time no call back.. whenever i wanna call back, haha.. it's midnite ady..)
(perhaps this is wat we call 深夜倍思亲..) got this quote anot? lolx..
ya.. for the next week, i m going to a talk for a few independent high schools..
haha.. quite looking forward to it..
yup.. as in shud be quite interesting to give some advices to juniors..
haha.. cant even wait for the date to come..
n ya.. should update my life now..
recently besides working in GL team, i oso get a chance to work as part time in Fish n Co..
where the slogan is "all seafood in a pan.." haha..
giving some advertisement tim..
nvm.. n yup..
learning a lot from it.. although in the learning process, nan mian will get scolded..
but quite happy though to learn to cook..
but for the next few weeks, i think wont be able to post blog entry ba..
maybe will get a bit busy.. haha.
but i think for those got heart, u all wont look at my blog n leave without leaving comment ba..
haha.. looking forward for the replies yo..
okie.. cya all.. 6월 8일 RSPHI_Farragoi know posting this entry wont get back lots of response.. nvm..
and the farragoian... (never use spaces as private bloggie.. aihz..)
but juz let u all to know wat RSPHI is.. n wat we do..
RSPHI simply stands for regular service project for hearing impaired..
and we are all juz a group of volunteer doing weekly service either in teaching tuition to the kids from pri 1 to even poly student..
but for the Farrago team, we teach chinese.. (haha.. i think my chinese is better than english.. so i choose farrago..)
We are not juz like a group of members doing only the commitment we promised,
i think we more like a big family.. working is more fun if everyone works in a happy mode (said the new coordinator, xinyi.. lolx)
indeed, i think tad we all choose to work in such way.. even after a formal meeting, a relaxing outing is unexempted..
(oops.. y'day i did not join the dinner.. paiseh ya.. as in plan to go back for my FOA thingy.. nid to get back before 8pm..)
throughout the whole year, we hav gone pass lotsa events..
and the bonding between each is fostered.. tads wat i m looking forward when i decide to join ECA like RSPHI..
to know more ppl and together we work towards our goals..
I know tad recently has been a tough moment for all of us..
like Alex has to choose to leave as in he is quite busy with the interpreter job in SaDeaf..
(but i will try to persuade him to come back if he can get himself free)
and somemore, the new programme is ongoing..
everyone can foresee that this will not be an easy job..
getting all the publication job done to attract more deaf frens and liason job to cooperate with other club will cost lotsa time..
and even after all tad, we nid to make sure the whole programme will go on the right track..
anyway, i hav confidence on all the chosen farragoian.. i think we all can make it through..
rmb the HI TEA event?
even some seniors have some harsh comment on our event, but i think we all had done a great job..
tads the spirit we all nid..
so lets put our hands together..
let's make farrago to be a warmer and sweeter center for all the hearing impaired and the volunteers.. (yaya.. tad means u and me..)
1,2,3 Farrago gogogo..
weihong.. and on behalf of my friendly partner, ellie.. =P
5월 30일 a month ago..erm.. the following post was created 1 month ago.. juz did not hav time to post it up.. =P
there has been while i back to msia.. getting self out of the stressful n time shortening life n suddenly bcome a bit slack.. haha.. tads wat we mean holiday right..
but in a blink, feel like losing the target for myself to work for.. n sometimes lying on the bed, oso will think of the future work awaiting after i get back to NTU.. hmm.. indeed i hav such a strong feeling to go back n enjoy the "rushy" life there..
anyway.. whenever seeing my parents come back from work, (since both of them r working til quite late) actuali i oso share only little time with them even i m in kl.. but quite appreciate the dinner every nites even sometimes the dishes tad i cook mayb a bit bitter as in (4get to put in some salt =P) (erm.. supposed tis job is to be completed by my younger sis.. but she said her exams r approaching..) but i can c them eating without any complaint.. haha..
erm.. i think there is sth true about the Chinese.. shy to express their own feeling.. (anyway, i m not talking about my parents awful feeling about the dinner i prepared) i mean.. recently, tads been lotsa of commercials about celebrating mother's or even father's day.. specially the ASTRO.. oways put those old style commercial.. but it is touching.. watching it, will feel tad i i reali owe a lot to them.. but here, i confess.. they sacrifice lots to grow me up.. to giv the best they can give..
haha.. anyway, wishing them happy mother's n father's day.. 要开心哦.. 3월 31일 the email..i think lotsa frens discuss about the email i sent to them few weeks ago..
haha.. n perhaps some of them may think that m i having some mental problem..
haha.. nvm la.. but wat i wan to tell u all is..
juz wanna to find out more about myself..
n try to improve.. knowing myself lack of lotsa personalities wad..
haha.. then i juz simply share with u all la..
the email is sth similar to the following..
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harlou..
wanna give myself a change.. anything u r not satisfied with my personalities.. you are welcomed to send me a mail.. all ur comments will be treated private n confidential... dun b afraid to leave any msg.. 敢敢来.. thanks ya.. have a nice day.. regards, weihong =) --------------------------------------------------------
n due to to words private n confidential..
so i wont mention their names in the following comments..
haha.. but i agree with them wat they have said to me la..
someone said that..
讲话要婉转一点 有自信一点 对别人好一点吧 就不要太以自我为中心 就不要太骄傲拉
oso.. sometime i will heard some people got some comment about u... say u temper got some weird... n some more..
>>well, i guess you're not the only one who has this feeling after coming to uni ba..
>>跟中学相比，相处的时间少了，自然而然，要找一个真正了解、关心自己的人变得更不容易. dunno la, 我也是最近才发现uni de ppl比较现实，对人家好一点，他们反而觉得我们另有居心，防范得更谨慎些
but then, 换个角度想，或许自己也是这样对待其他人.. dunno la, haha n a fren which i agree what he/she said...
你一切都很好，
只是你永远都会认为自己是站在领导人的位子， 喜欢去叫人去做这样，做那样，却自己只是在说而已， 或许我也是一个xx座的人，不能忍受别人的指指点点。。 说真的，你是一个很好的朋友， 只是在某些方面，你是一个很严厉的领导人，有点霸道的领导人 n some of my frens not dare to hurt me..
道道你的优点，让你继续发扬光大啦~
在聊天/谈心这个环节，你胜任有余啦。很好的说话者，也是很好的听众。除了可以废之外，若要聊到内心深处，你应该是其中一个人选。我在NTU认识的，此类属稀有动物啊～～就把你关进animal house 吧～ 心意。因为有心，所以总是兴致勃勃，于是感染到周围的人，也勃起来。厄，我是说也兴致勃勃起来，你在想什么咧？！ｗａｌａｏ 平易近人。我自认是自闭的。说好听我们认识x个月，可是见面／说话次数屈指可数。可是好像可以很熟酱。请注意我的用词遣字，我是说好像～这就是你厉害的地方了。 i get sth wat i wan to hear too..
One word for you: Ego. You are good in leadership and all those stuff like prganizing this and that, but just don't forget that everybody has their own set of thinking. You cannot change how others think, but you have to learn to accept and negotiate with them. Sometimes I think you are just a little egoistic, wanting things to go your way. n.. i m improving le la.. haha..
no problem with ur personalities la, just that u always join wsc etc but not amcisa ma, so maybe cant get so close with amcisa ppl. dun make urself so busy, get some time to join our activity lo u will get closer with us, dont worry n if YOU oso hav any comments about me..
dun dare to leave any msg to me.. 敢敢来.. n at last..
reali thx for those frens who r willing to reply my email..
haha..
n i will note all down.. n try my best to learn to be a better man..
thx ya..
3월 29일 the one i shud not be.."i know i know.. u r the manhunt of laz FOA.."
feeling quite surprised to hear ppl stil rmb me..
anyway, this shud b someone i prefer dun wan to be since the FOA..
perhaps, lotsa ppl will disagree with the judges for choosing such a person as the man of the night..
ya.. indeed i heard some of them..
haha.. frankly, i take other ppl's word quite easily..
no matter good words or bad words..
n i like to be affirmed (*haha.. dunno if i use the correct vocabulary..)
n dislike the feeling of being denied.. haha..
throughout the whole sem.. i mean laz sem, i was a bit stressed about this things..
haha.. quite silly ho.. even now i think about it, i will laugh at myself..
but juz dun like to be compared with other person lo..
haha..
so la.. actuali i prefer to b ordinary.. rather than being chosen n given such a name..
then on the other sides, lotsa objections are heard.. "that ppl is much better than weihong la.. wonder how can he be chosen"
hmm.. quite hurt though..
perhaps tads my problem la.. for taking other's word so deep in heart..
haha.. kk.. wil try to improve xia de..
before ending this post, i would like to thx those frens who oways encourage me n stay by my side..
appreciate u all so much..
tads all.. haha..
p/s: i think the award of manhunt was given to da shuai ge.. mingwei ady..
big applause for him.. hooray.. 3월 14일 rumoursrumours r quite frightening nowadays..
sometimes, even i hav to hear from other ppl, then only i realise that.. ei..? do i did so..?
haha.. dunno y.. juz lotsa rumours making me oso confused about myself..
Rumour no1:
i think less than a week after FOA (Freshmen Orientation Activities), i heard from some friends about a list of mine..
namely gf list.. oh no.. (i thought this kind of thing will only appear in the taiwanese dramas.. y does this happen to me???)
means that i had written a list which states lotsa gal's name..
then i will consider them 1 by 1..
haha.. (i oso wish tad i hav such a 魅力 n can have so many options..)
but obviously not..
suan le ba.. i think this topic is cooling down now..
Rumour no2:
laz time my frens who mostly are the gals come to my room..
n they not dare to come in, saying that..
"i heard that gals n pets r forbidden in ur room.."
my reply is simple..
"..."
oh my gosh.. wat is all this..
i did tell my roomie not to bring gals to overnite..
(so far, he obey it for 100%)
but i did nt say such erm.. wat should i say..
Rumour no3:
i think lotsa ppl has the same question for me..
"wh, do u quarrel v ur roomie AGAIN..?"
hmm.. this is wat moz of the ppl conclude, when i said my roomie has gone overnite in other ppl's room..
actuali, i hav known him for quite a long time.
i think sec 2 perhaps.. n we hav been helping each for these time..
even in m'sia, i asked him to go shopping with me..
just 2 of us.. n in the past, whenever we finish teaching tuition in the school, we will wait for each..
even sometimes he uses bike to send me out for the bus stop..
romantic right.. lolx
however, i stil cant figure out y he dun like to stay in my room la..
haha.. perhaps the food in my room is not so attractive..
joking ya..
tads all la.. maybe there r much more rumours which some of them i have not heard...
if u r free, call me out n tell me wat's new of my rumours..
=)
3월 5일 no titlethinking of wat to type..
i dun hav the ability to create those beautiful words for u all to enjoy..
i oso dun hav any exciting events to share with..
all i hav juz some thoughts in my mind..
dunno y.. perhaps i m those type who can not stay in loneliness..
oways looking for someone to chat, or mix with or even some activities to do..
juz dislike the feeling being alone, being isolated..
miss (miss here refer to 错失） a lots of things..
miss the dinner time with fren yesterday.. (paiseh ya..) miss the lecture this morning..
miss the chance to watch movie with frens today..
miss the chance to mix better with some sorts of frens..
miss the chance to recruit for the events i wan..
miss the chance to do the way i wan to be as a U student..
miss the chance to make my life more colourful..
a lot of unchangeable things now happen before my eyes..
whenever try to think about it, oways think of "i should hav done this.."
dunno.. perhaps i should hav learnt how to think in a better way..
the life path still a long way to go..
hopefully i can get some lessons.. to go for a brighter tmr.. =) 3월 3일 Happy birthday to kjfollowed by the birthday of the super HANDSOME mingwei, today is kj's b'day..
at the prevoius days, i m exhausted coz of the WSC HI outing..
(for those who do not know, WSC HI means for Welfare Services Club Hearing Impaired)
It is quite fun though.. cycling all the nite.. and our chalet is attacked by so called terrorists.. juz kidding la.. =P
so i feel tired de.. haha..
but sunday woke up at 8am n play basketball.. (wooh.. it is quite refreshing though.. )
haha.. then of coz, at the end.. feeling sleepy the whole noon n evening..
sleep at 9pm.. but later was waken by mingwei.. telling me it's time to go n celebrate lo..
kj is my classmate since long time ago.. even our badges' numbers on the our school uniform r quite near.. haha..
even i was challenged by the sleeping devil, but i choose to go n prove tad our friendship is much important.. lol..
after that, we ended up with the supper.. haa.. i think i m going to gain weight ler.. haha..
moz important is our birthday star felt happy la..
P/s: kj, if u r hesitated to make wishes, i dun mind taking 1 from u.. haha..
n thx ya for providing the breakfaz for me.. haha..
3월 2일 1st postjuz curious what can i do with the msn space..
haha.. good la then..
can practise using some english..
this is the 1st post..
hopefully there will be 2nd, 3rd...
dunno if i hav such 毅力 anot.. haha..
for those who will be having quiz and CAs n presentations, n assignments, n projects...
add oil la..
weihong =) |
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